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Assessment by Angie Gichimu...
As A Man Thinketh
Assessment by Angela Gichimu.
1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?
The main idea behind this book is about man taking control of his won life
and destiny. It talks of how of how if someone just took control of their
life, had a plan of how they were going to achieve their dreams and how they
would not leave their fate to chance and not fear failure then success would
surely follow. The book also encourages knowledge of one self: strengths,
weaknesses abilities in order to realize what we can do. It talks of how if
we change our perception or behavior then our circumstances change. For
instance if one changed their eating habits for the better, then chances of
heart failure or weight related conditions would not affect them. The book
talks about how man determines who he becomes. In chapter one the author
says that, Man is made or unmade by himself. In the armory of thought he
forges the weapons by which he destroys himself. He also fashions the tools
with which he builds for himself heavenly mansions of joy and strength and
peace. By the right choice and true application of thought, man ascends to
the divine perfection……….. This mans that if man chooses the path of
righteousness; the good shall abound but if he chooses evil then destruction
will follow.
2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and
why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to
why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.
1. 'man is the master of thought, molder of character and the maker and
shaper of condition'- this was eye-catching for one and also very important
because, I have realized that every time I take responsibility of my life
actions and deeds as well as make wise decisions the results are fruitful.
2. 'For only by patience, practice and ceaseless importunity can man enter
the door of the temple of knowledge' -I am learning to be patient especially
with other people and from this virtue I have learnt that waiting just a
little bit longer doesn't hurt. Every time I have fallen and risen and
continued with my mission I have come out stronger.
3. ‘the outer conditions of a person's life will always be found to be
harmoniously related to his inner state' -It is important to me because I
have come to realize that, if my emotional state is in chaos then I tend to
be distracted and this affects how I relate to other people around me. But
on days when I am at peace with myself I tend to be happier.
4. 'men do not attract that which they want, but that which they are'- I
actually thought it to be the other way around but after thinking about it I
realized that every time I doubt my ability I sell myself short and thus
cannot accomplish. But when I fill my mind with thoughts of prosperity and
success I get the results.
5. 'Circumstance does not make the man; it reveals him to himself'- This was
especially important to me as a student. This is because faced by a dilemma
recently I had no where to turn and did not know what I could do but that
situation actually showed me a new side of me that I did not think I had and
that taught me immensely.
6. you will become as small as your controlling desire, as great as your
dominant aspiration'- I have come to love this phrase because I took up this
challenge of reading these books just when I had so much on my plate and I
was certain I could not make it, then I read this phrase and realized that
the more I told myself that it was too much, I increasingly thought it
impossible, but then I want to learn, I want to be a better person and so my
ambition to be an example to someone in this world propelled me to actually
manage all I thought was a lot-so far I think I'm doing just fine.
7. 'calmness of mind is one of the beautiful jewels of wisdom'- This is
especially insightful to me because I am getting to know myself more and
more and this helps me relate to others even better. I have also realized
that when I am at peace with myself people are more receptive to me and my
ideas and I get happier with myself everyday and I do not beat myself up for
mistakes past but take them as a lesson in life
3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your
daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world? If so, how?
Each idea presented to me here will in one way or the other especially in my
personal life help me in that:
* I will always remember that I should never give up or give in to my doubts
or fears.
* I will always remember that my failures are not my shortcomings but
lessons for life which will come in handy from time to time.
* If I can prepare for everything I set out to do then I will achieve it,
not by chance or luck but by own hard work and determination
* When I take responsibility for my mistakes and take control of my life,
when I choose to follow a diet out of will and not because I feel pressured,
or even when I surround myself with people who look out for me and support
me I will prosper
In changing the world, these lessons will help me in that:
* Gandhi said, be the change you would like to see in the sense that I
should become the kind of person I want to see in the world. I cannot be an
agent of change if I cannot embrace it. Therefore if I want a world without
abortions I should not commit such an act myself because it starts with me.
* If I want to work well with people I have to first understand myself in
terms of my weaknesses and strengths and know how I can contribute to making
a change in the world.
* In this world I would like to see a generation of people of who do not
suffer from obesity, are always on diets and spend money on plastic surgery
and have to deal with conditions like high blood pressure or kidney failure,
when all they have to embrace is good eating habits and exercise. That is
what I would encourage and advocate.
4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly
got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were
important to you.
'Men are anxious to improve their circumstances but are unwilling to improve
themselves; they therefore remain bound'. This is especially important to me
because I realize that every time we are in trouble or in problems we are
always quick to seek the solutions and once that's over and done with we
never take a look back and try to analyze the cause of all the troubles that
face us. This means that we keep having the same troubles and problems over
and over.
'A man cannot directly choose his circumstances, but can choose his
thoughts, so indirectly, yet surely, shape his circumstances'. This got my
attention because it just talks about the choices we make and how they
influence our lives. It instilled in me a sense of pride in knowing that if
I maintained pure thoughts, and maintained good behavior, thoughts that
would build me, and then my circumstances would surely change.
'the strong ones recognize failure as one of the pathways to attainment' I
was especially scared of failure because of what people would think of me
and therefore never tried to do things which I thought I would fail. Then I
realized that every time I fail I learn and it also makes me stronger if not
wiser. It has therefore shown me that I am right to learn from my mistakes
and not fear to fail.
'There can be neither progress nor achievement without sacrifice' I have
read this book at the time when I am about to do my exams. It is during this
period that there are parties all over yet here I am with deadlines on
everything. It is not like I did not know this but it has come at the most
opportune time when I needed a jolt from the idea that I could party and
study and finish these books in time. I needed a motivation to decide what
to sacrifice and after reading this I realized it was practically
a-no-brainer for me.
5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear
about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?
First of all I was slightly discouraged by the language, seeing it was set a
long time ago but then I put my mind to it and slowly began to understand
what it was about after the first chapter then I just went back to the
beginning and started all over again.
I in a way I am uncertain about the statement that, 'men do not attract that
which they want but which they are' I feel like this is harsh in a way
because its like saying that if for instance if in a relationship I am being
abused it one way or another translates into it being the kind of a person I
am, violent .I do not think that's right in the sense that even when looking
for friends or partners yes you find the qualities that match yours as well
as others that compliment who you are or you admire, that's why I think it's
a bit harsh.
6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you
complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?
No the books did not have exercise for me to complete however the examples
were very relevant to me and I was able to relate to them.
7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on
that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.
Yes. The stages of how the book has been divided in to chapters; thought and
character, effects of thought and circumstance, effects on health and body,
thought and purpose, the thought-factor in achievement, visions and ideals,
and finally serenity. I think just the subtitles on their own are very
important because they take the reader stage by stage into realizing how he
can change his thoughts and not only in his work area but also in his own
personal health and being, and I think that's one other thing the book talks
about, ones thoughts. There is somewhere it says that it doesn't matter what
you dream of whether material or spiritual as long as it motivates you into
attaining it and that is the whole essence of our dreams
Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and
one is poor.
A. How interesting was it to read? 6
B. How helpful were the contents? 7
C. How easy was it to understand? 6
D. Would you recommend it to others? 8
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 7
Jonathan Livingston Seagull
Assessment by Angela Gichimu (Kenya) 1. What is the main idea that the
author is trying to convey in the book?
This book is about a seagull who from the beginning knew that there was more
to life than waiting to be fed. From his character you can tell that he is
relentless as he tries to prove to the rest of the seagulls that they can do
more than they think they are able to only if they try. The author brings
out the character of the other seagulls as conservative and apathetic. This
is clear from the way they shun Jonathan from the flock just because he
believes there is more to life than the current one he is living.
The book shows how a young Jonathan from a tender age could not accept his
fate as ordinary because in his heart he knew he was different. In his mind
he was not interested in the ordinary and was more into what more he could
do with his life than settle with the ordinary. The author shows the
struggle which he goes through trying to fit in, heed the advice of his
parents and try to live a normal life but it does not take long for him to
realize that, that is not his destiny.
In his mind Jonathan knows that seagulls cannot fly as high as he wants to
go or even do as many stunts as other birds, but this does not stop him. He
learns from every time he falls. Discovers from every mistake he makes. Even
when he is shunned he does not resign himself to misery but does what he
loves best-flying which leads him to a better place.
In a nutshell the author tries to convey that we are more than we are born
into and we can become better an know ourselves more if only we could be
like Jonathan Seagull who never gave up despite the failure, pain and even
rejection that we may face I our effort to better ourselves.
2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and
why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to
why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.
a) ‘Jonathan seagull was no ordinary bird…most gulls did not bother to learn
the simple facts of flight-how to get from shore to food and back again.’ It
was important because it makes me realize that there’s nothing wrong with
being different to others and I should not try to conform just to make them
happy. If I see that I have a bigger purpose in life than what I previously
thought and contrary to what others think I should not discard it just
because there is a pre conceived idea of how I should be.
b) ‘I am limited by my nature ….. my father was right. I must forget this
foolishness. I must fly home to the flock and be content as I am a poor
little seagull.’ This was important especially because any time something
bad happens one always remembers the warnings they were given and then start
doubting themselves and not believing in their ability. This reminds me of
how when I am afraid of failure I look for excuses just so that I can avoid
failing all together and thus taking the backseat and watching things being
done, unfortunately as I look at what I shied away from being done I
normally feel that I can do it or could have done it better.
c) ‘Dark! Seagulls never fly in the dark! This was eye catching in the sense
that we normally look at the beliefs that we have been given or that have
been instilled in us and normally this if followed too closely could make us
not achieve our dreams. These notions create barriers and walls which are
the things that hinder us from achieving what we set out to do.
d) ‘what he had once hoped for the flock, he now gained for himself alone;
he learned to fly, and was not sorry for the price he had paid’ Jonathan had
dreams that when he learnt to fly he would teach the rest and the flock
would become creatures and more self reliant. However this was never to be
because he was rejected because he was different. It just reminds me at some
point that I will lose friends because they do not support what I do to
achieve all I want.
e) ‘The gulls who scorn perfection for the sake of travel go nowhere. Those
who put aside travel for the sake of perfection go anywhere, instantly’ This
reminds that we are all given a chance at life, it is what we do with this
chance that matters. If I just look at life and not try to change the
circumstances I will never move. On the other hand if I take the chance like
education and make sacrifices to make the education I get assist in making
my life worth living, then I will be truly satisfied.
f) And the more Jonathan practiced his kindness lessons, and the more he
worked to know the nature of love, the more he wanted to go back to Earth.
For in spite of his lonely past, Jonathan Seagull was born to be an
instructor, and his own way of demonstrating love was to give something of
the truth that he had seen to a gull who asked only a chance to see truth
for himself’ It is important to remember where we came from. Especially when
we have changed the situations in which we grew up in. Where we come from
determines how we perceive life and so it is important when we learn
something that would be of benefit to those that we left behind we should at
least go back and teach it to them or that want to listen. If I was not
accepted for the way my hair looked or the size of my body where I came
from, it is important to at least go back and be the guiding force of that
one or two people who feel like they have been rejected and told to change
because they will never make it. So you go back to be an inspiration to
those who feel discouraged.
g) ‘Fletcher Lynd Seagull was still quite young, but already he knew that no
bird had ever been so harshly treated by any Flock, or with so much
injustice. "I don't care what they think. I'll show them what flying is!
I'll be pure Outlaw; if that's the way they want it. And I'll make them so
sorry..." This was important because it reminded me of the bitterness you
feel as young child when you are not acknowledged for your efforts just
because they are not like those that have been set. It created bitterness in
me as a child because I was not good in math but brilliant in all the other
subjects. I was always mad and vowed to revenge but with time I resolved and
realized that if the effort that I made did not matter to them but mattered
to me, then that was what was important.
h) "You will begin to touch heaven, Jonathan, in the moment that you touch
perfect speed. And that isn't flying a thousand miles an hour, or a million,
or flying at the speed of light. Because any number is a limit and
perfection doesn't have limits. Perfect speed, my son,’ This caught my eye
as I was reading because it reminds me that I will normally limit myself to
what I can do yet in my head believing that I can do it. However the fear of
failure stops me dead in my tracks. However any time I take a leap of faith
so to speak ad do not limit myself I find that I exceed my own expectations
further proving to me that I should not limit myself.
3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your
daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world? If so, how?
These ideas will help me in that every day I am faced with challenges I do
not have to be afraid but remember that I should not limit myself to the
things I know only.
Secondly it reminds me of forgiveness explained here as love and kindness
especially to those who shun as and disregard our efforts. If I carry the
weight of grudges on my shoulders then I will never truly move on and
achieve what I set out to do.
The lessons all teach me to be relentless and not give up; If everyone in
the world gave up, if the Alexander Graham Bell would have given up well
this world would have been significantly been different.
These lessons teach me that I should never tire of learning and practicing
what I learn. I should also never stick with knowledge that I acquire but
spread it to those who need it as this will help someone the same way it did
me.
These lessons remind me that the limits I put on my efforts only serve to
delay my dreams and that I should strive to eliminate all this limits that I
set.
In addition I realize that we go through this life chasing what we think
will bring ultimate happiness and never stop for a second to think if this
will bring us the desired joy. We also never think about others and I
believe that if you stop for a second and think of what we can do to make a
change. So if we learnt what we did like Jonathan in the hope of making a
change around us then truly we will be happy.
4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly
got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were
important to you.
‘Ten times, he tried, but all ten times he passed through, he burst into a
churning mass of feathers, crashing down into the water’ -It is not everyday
we can try something over and over despite that we fail every time we are at
it. We take the easy way out and give up and move on to something different.
We never finish what we start because the first few times we try we fail.
Jonathan is however an inspiration because he fell and hurt himself but
still stood up and tried again each time trying a different approach and
learning with each try. We should all have a little Jonathan within us who
never gives up.
‘Here were gulls who thought as he thought. For each of them the most
important thing in living was to reach out and touch perfection in that
which they most loved to do, and that was to fly.’ Whenever we are torn
between choice it is easier to find friends or acquaintances who think like
we do or who at least see the world as we do because they will always
encourage us to do what we set out and be more than we care to think about.
“‘Let’s try again,’ Sullivan said over and over: “let’s try it again” - It
is not everyday that we meet someone like Sullivan who is patient with us
and will be with us all through until we learn. We should therefore utilize
the people we meet who are interested in our efforts and engage them as much
as we can even though they are only there for a short while and we will
learn immensely.
"Well, of course it works, Jon." said Chaing. "It always works, when you
know what you're doing.’ This to me I took it to mean that Chaing was trying
to tell Jonathan that when we plan how we are going to achieve our goals, it
is an easier path than just running around without strategy. Everything will
work out if we know how we are going to do it.
5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear
about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?
‘What he had once hoped for the flock, he now gained for himself alone; he
learned to fly, and was not sorry for the price he had paid’. I do not agree
with this in the sense that he achieved his dreams at the expense of his
family. True we should stop at nothing to achieve what we want however I
think it is important to know at what cost. I understand what the author was
trying to say but I think it could be misunderstood and mislead someone into
thinking that when it comes to dreams you can sacrifice even your family.
6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you
complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?
No the book did not have any exercises for me to complete.
7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on
that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.
Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and
one is poor.
A. How interesting was it to read? 7
B. How helpful were the contents? 6
C. How easy was it to understand? 8
D. Would you recommend it to others? 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 8
Keys To Success
Assessment by Angie Gichimu (Kenya)
1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?
It is book that talks about seventeen fundamental principles which a person
can follow in order to succeed in life if they are willing and ready to
follow, as the book calls them, `keys to success'. It encourages you to
implement plans that you make by giving directives. The author in this book
tries to show us in seventeen principles that what he is advising is not
something abstract or unknown to each and every one of us but things we
already know but never really come round to applying in our lives. The
author also shares his inspiration to formulate and later publish this
principles and that is through Andrew Carnegie. It is through this that he
shows the world principles by which great individuals achieve individual
success.
The author calls for everyone who reads this book and wants to succeed, to
have an open mindset and a willingness to work at achieving all that they
envision for themselves. “The difference between a wish and a burning desire
is crucial. Everyone wants better things in life-money, fame, respect -but
most people never go beyond just wishing for them. If you know what you want
from life, if you are determined to get it to the point that it becomes an
obsession with continuous effort and sound planning, then you have awakened
and developed definiteness of purpose.”
In a nutshell we can say the book calls for everyone who reads it to become
the master of their own minds by among other things, decide on what they
want from life, make plans on how to attain their desired goal, work hard,
believe in their efforts, become resilient and learn from failure and most
importantly have faith. “Whatever your mind can conceive and believe, your
mind can achieve.” W. Clement Stone.
2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and
why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to
why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.
Develop definiteness of purpose
This was and still is important to me. This is because we all want to do so
many things in life and the reason we never come around to accomplishing
them is because we really do not think about or prioritize the order in
which we would like to achieve all that we dream of. I know what I want to
do in life, but it was after I read this chapter on the definiteness of
purpose, I realized just because I knew about setting goals, I was lacking
in one thing and that is this concept of having a definite purpose. It was
until I wrote down all the things that I wanted to do in life that I
realized they were really haphazard and one of the reasons why. I thought I
was doing the wrong course but after evaluating the most important in the
list, I realized that what really mattered most to me came first in the list
and so what I am studying is very relevant to my dreams.
Assemble an attractive personality
I always thought that courtesy and the right manners could get me through
this until I read the chapter on assembling an attractive personality. I
learnt that from assembling an attractive personality, I could be able to
attract the kind of influences in my life that I would want. From an
attractive personality I could be able to work better with people as it
makes me more likeable, approachable and even for those who don't know me
will feel drawn to me because of the attractive personality I exude and in
the end think of me as more trustworthy. This is important because no man is
an island and every once in a while will have to work with others in order
to achieve what they wish.
Create Personal initiative and go the extra mile
I undertake most responsibilities half-heartedly, but from both these
chapters I realized that giving your all in everything you do surely pays in
the end. Luckily I already knew both these concepts and already applied them
to my life. They however instilled in me a sense of courage to continue as I
do but also reminded me that nothing comes easy but by taking an initiative
and going the extra mile always pays off. From this I learned that personal
initiative and going the extra mile creates opportunities and most
importantly builds other peoples trust in you.
Enforce self discipline
This is proving to be the hardest to enforce especially because I am good at
procrastinating. I know it and understand it well but habits are hard to
break but after reading this chapter I realized that I could change
over-night after reading this because I keep falling back into old patterns.
I now realize that procrastination is a weakness I have to overcome. So
instead I have decided to make gradual changes in my patterns and that way I
will slip into a new routine. It is from this chapter I learnt that I could
replace one weakness with a strength, so I have decided to work on learning
my weaknesses and replacing each one with a strength I do not already have
and the book has taught me that by doing this I will essentially assemble an
attractive personality.
Think Accurately
This at first I thought to be very ambiguous because I could not possibly
understand what it meant. Then I read it again and again and it became all
the more clear to me. Finally I saw that this concept of accurate thinking
made more sense when put together with these other concepts such as
definiteness of purpose, prompt decision making and a positive attitude. It
proved to be especially important because I have the tendency to disbelieve
anything I do not understand. It has taught me to evaluate every bit of
information I receive, question opinions of others and their motives behind
them at the same time giving every idea or opinion I get a chance to sink in
and think about it before I can discard it as rubbish. All in all I can say
this chapter has also taught me how to control habits of thought and through
this I am able to examine the results of my reasoning consistently and look
for flaws.
Cultivate creative vision
In life most people wait to be handed things, be given jobs, and be employed
by others or even make money. However this is not the way to go I learnt
form reading this chapter. I realized that I do not have to wait to be
handed everything or wait for money to be sent to me, but if I can think of
creative ways to make the money I want or instead of looking for the job I
dream of instead I create that job. The chapter taught me that it is all
about tapping in to my talent, and so to speak, think outside the box. For
instance I love writing and from my mass communication classes, I have
acquired a skill. I learnt how to professionally do it, I therefore do not
have to wait to finish school to write articles for a magazine or journal
for an organization but I can pen some stories, which I can get paid for
writing and I think this is what this chapter talked about. It made me think
about it and now that is what I am working on.
Build a positive mental attitude
I think of my self as a realist. Many times I will look at something and
always look at the other side whether good or bad. The pros and cons of
every situation For instance death. According to me death is a life
experience since it is inevitable to all of us. On one side it causes grief
to the bereaved but on the other it ends the suffering of the one who dies.
My point is I normally come off as a person lacking in faith or a pessimist
which honestly I do not think I am. This was important to me because in many
ways it has changed the way I think, not entirely, because I still look at
situations from both ends. But it has shown me to how important faith is and
how the way I say things affects the people around me. I realized that when
I said things differently or did not necessarily air all my concerns, just
the obvious ones, I began attracting the kind of friends I wanted, achieving
some of the thins I hoped to and building a positive mental attitude is all
about faith which I have learnt to accumulate plenty of.
3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your
daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world? If so, how?
For me a definiteness of purpose has totally changed my way of looking at
things and the way I do things. It has made me more aware of myself and all
the things I can or have the opportunity to do. So I imagine what it would
do for the world. This needs to be taught. It will help me create a better
world in the sense that this principle made me evaluate all I want to do in
life and at the end of it, it is all about helping others and giving back to
the community. I have always somehow known this is what I want to do but the
principle of definiteness of purpose reinforced it in my head and now it has
become my crusade.
If everyone became more aware of their habits both good and bad, worked on
the bad and replaced them with more positive then truly our world would be
different. I say this because; an attractive personality draws people to you
and makes them want to work with you. I will work at assembling my
attractive personality so as to change my relationship with others. They say
that the journey of a thousand miles begins with ones step so, if I can
influence one person to also make amends to their personality, who in turn
will influence another then the cycle goes on.
Our roads would be better if the people in charge took the initiative of
making them well in the first place. The services a customer care attendant
offers is normally much better when they go the extra mile to be courteous
and polite at the same time helpful. This is my point; If everyone did their
work without waiting to be told and even did more than they were asked, more
so ensured or did a follow up to ensure that the assistance they offered,
actually helped, then truly the world would be a better place. I once heard
that some people lead while others follow. I will definitely not follow but
lead by example.
Self discipline is a personal asset that we should all nurture and cherish.
Imagine the kind of achievements or progress we would make. It is through
self discipline that a person will have an early start, not because they are
forced to but because they want to. It is because of self discipline that a
student will diligently attend class without fail and do all assignments. It
is because of self discipline that a person trying to keep fit and healthy
will not indulge in junk or fatty and unhealthy foods. It is because of self
discipline that a person working out will keep going despite the pain. What
I am saying is, nobody is perfect but will can all work at being the best
the best we can be. Therefore if we do not want litter all over our cities
and garbage heaps all over, It is through self discipline that we will get
cleaner homes, communities, towns, cities, countries, continents and the
world as a whole. All we need is self discipline to clean up after ourselves
and make use of trash cans.
Our education system here in Africa instills in us that we should go to
school so that we may get job opportunities. However at the end of the day
we are to blame for our own shortcomings, so I believe that we should tap
into our minds because we are told that it is only our mind that we can
truly control and think outside the box. When such a cliché is used people
normally tend to overlook it, so I will say it this way. Think of things you
know you know you can do and even those you think you can't possibly succeed
or are too big for you and have a go at them. It is what creativity is all
about and a creative vision is about using your imagination to make the
ordinary extraordinary.
4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly
got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were
important to you.
'The difference between a wish and a burning desire is crucial. Everyone
wants better things in life-money, fame, respect-but most people never go
beyond just wishing for them. If you know what you want form life, if you
are determined to get it to the point it becomes an obsession with
continuous effort and sound planning, then you have awakened and developed
definiteness of purpose.' Page 2. This was important to me because it made
me realize that I can only want something so much, but for me to get it I
have to take the next step at working to get it.
'If you can see an opportunity as quickly as you can see the faults of
others, you will soon succeed.” Page 4. This was in connection to a
subtitle, alertness to opportunity. It was important because it made me
realize that more than concentrate on what others are not doing, I should do
what I am doing to the best of my abilities. This is because for as long as
I know what I want to do in life, I should look at every back-step or
downfall as an opportunity. Other quotes or phrases I found that
particularly got my attention are between page 59- 62,
DEMONSTRATING THE POWER OF YOUR FAITH.
* Don't let a day pass without making at least one move toward attaining
your major purpose.- It has made me realize that to finally attain what I
hope, I should not wait but make it a work in progress.
* Recognize that anything worth having has a definite price tag. Anything
worth having is worth working for.- It just reminds me each day that
anything I want really bad will not land on my laps or be handed on a silver
platter but I will get it through hard work.
5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear
about? Are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?
Page 48 (Understanding infinite intelligence) page35 (faith in infinite
intelligence) There is a concept in this book about infinite intelligence on
the pages aforementioned. Now thing is no matter how much I read both, I
cant seem to fully understand and I would be grateful if you would kindly
expound more on it.
6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you
complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?
Yes the book had exercises for me to complete in the last chapter-a fast
review that covers rather summarizes each chapter, with a run through of the
main ideas each chapter i.e. each principle. The concept behind this
evaluation is for one to read each summary and at the end of it, it provides
a space to write down specific actions you plan to take to implement that
principle.
I found this very helpful because not only did I get a summary of all I had
read but it give me the chance to commit to applying each principle. It is
like signing a contract to live my life according to these principles by
specifically writing down on each principle specific steps I hope to take
and in the long-run achieve success.
7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on
that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.
All I can say is that we never really know when starting something, how that
thing will end, we only hope that after all the effort, sacrifice, faith,
time or even money that we have put in to getting it done, will bear fruit.
This book has been a great inspiration for me to actually get down to things
I never thought I could only dream of but never get down to doing because I
was afraid I would fail. It has made me more aware of myself to evaluate
things in my life that I consider important and discard those I have come to
realize are not as important as I thought.
It has also taught me that life is not as hard as I think it is. I just have
to prioritize things that matter and things that don't, those that are
urgent and those that are not. As well as make decisions quickly and always
act on my thoughts. It has taught me that the best way to do this is to
write down every idea which I may think is silly. The book has made me
committed to make me a better person by improving on my self discipline and
having more faith and most importantly never to give up. It has shown me
where I need to improve in order to not only be a better person but to also
succeed in life. It has made me realize that in life the only thing I can
truly control is my mind and so that way I should learn to control my habits
and learn to use my mind, make my mind my servant and make it work for me
and from the words from W. Clement Stone, 'Whatever your mind can conceive
and believe, your mind can achieve.'
Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and
one is poor.
A. How interesting was it to read? 7
B. How helpful were the contents? 10
C. How easy was it to understand? 9
D. Would you recommend it to others? 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 8
Success Through Positive Mental Attitude
Assessment by Angie Gichimu (Kenya)
1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?
Success through a positive mental attitude is a very helpful book in which
the author tells how practical it is for one to achieve success in any
sphere of their life just by having the right attitude. A positive mental
attitude is the frame of mind in which the person who hopes for success has
faith and believes that his dreams and goals can come true.
The author is trying to bring to focus to the reader that achieving success
is not as far fetched as we may think but requires setting of goals and will
definitely attain them through persistent thinking and positive action. The
author encourages persistent and continuous action a definite plan in order
to attain success.
The book has been set in 5 distinct phases in which all the 23 chapters have
been divided. Part I titled where the road to achievement begins has the
first 5 chapters which act as a guide to discovering yourself. Part II
titled five mental bombshells for attacking success takes the reader down
the path of discovering ways of turning adversity into success.
Part III titled the key to your citadel of wealth gets into the details of
how to attain success and especially the ways you can turn ordinary
situations into working for you in order to achieve success. Part IV and V
titled get ready to succeed and action please respectively encourage the
reader to prepare for success as well as to act everything that they have
learned in the book and to put it into practice.
The book is a step by step guide into the steps one should take into
attaining success. It talks about living and behaving positively as well as
projecting faith and believing in their efforts.
2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and
why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to
why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.
You have everything to gain and nothing to lose by trying. Success is
achieved by those who keep trying with PMA. This was important to me because
for one it is very striking and quite memorable. Thing is it reminds me over
and over again that I should not be afraid to try since trying costs me
nothing. Sure I may experience a few difficulties and heartbreak along the
way but the possible and countless opportunities I could get from trying are
much more worth it. I have been through situations in which I was afraid to
try but immediately after success I realized that there was nothing to be
scared of in the first place. Many think of it as trial and error but the
book has taught me that through PMA it could be regarded as trial and
success.
Your world will change whether or not you choose to change it, but you have
the power to change its direction. When I think of this statement it reminds
me that we have the power and control the direction over which our lives
take. Time will pass us by whether or not we like it, the only difference is
what we do with the time on our hands. It reminds me always that my world
will change regardless of the choices I make the most important thing is how
wise my choices are that way if the choices I make are the right ones I will
at least have made a difference. From the book I learnt that if a man's mind
is right his world will be right.
Time after time the pattern repeats itself; problems and difficulties turn
out to be the best thing that could have happened, provided we translate
them into advantages. I have heard over and over again that history repeats
itself and this was important because when I look back at all the sad times
I have been through and experienced and even think about tough times, I
later got over it but I came to realize that those were some of the most
eye-opening situations. I came out stronger than I thought I could be. I
learnt more about myself than I would have never known.
A 'have not' is a person who believes that no idea is not good for him
unless he originates it. This was important in the sense that it has made me
understand people who are close to me a little bit better. I could never
understand why there were times a friend of mine disregarded every idea I
had, I thought it was a bit malicious and eventually gave up on trying
understanding them. It seemed that all that mattered to him was being the
originator of ideas and never wants to be out shone, so to speak. This
statement got me thinking and made me really understand them better.
That which you share with others will multiply and that which you withhold
will diminish. I was taught kindness as young person and I grew up knowing
that I should do unto others as I should want them to do unto me. This
reminded me that no matter how little I have should share it, because one
way or another it will come back to me in abundance. It may not be material
things even a smile, or the good I share with others will surely come back
to me.
'There is nothing noble in being superior to another person, true nobility
lies in being superior to your former self.' Indian proverb This proverb has
come to mean a lot to me. It became important because it keeps my character
in check and reminds me that I am the most important person and the only one
I should be superior to because true nobility lies in treating others as
equals without any form of segregation, prejudice or malice.
3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your
daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world? If so, how?
First of all these ideas act as my lessons and reminders that time and again
I may face challenges but they should not stop me because every adversity
has the seed of greater or equal opportunity. In creating a better world,
these ideas will help me try and make a better world. For I know that I will
face many challenges in living my dreams or carrying out some of them but
that should not stop me.
Secondly these ideas remind me that the choices I make really matter. In my
personal life it keeps reminding me that the choices I make now really
matter in the future because they totally determine the kind of life I may
have. In giving my contribution to the world, it reinforces my idea that I
should not wait till I am working to give aid to charity but that I should
start now.
Moreover, time and time again we experience testing times in our day to day
lives and these ideas have reminded me that I am stronger than I actually
think and I am capable of more than I really imagine. It is therefore
important that I always look for a lesson from everything that I experience;
pain, sorrow, joy etc. This way everything I will go through will be a
lesson, like a chapter in the book titled, you have a problem, that's good!
Finally these ideas will be important to me because making people happy has
been paramount to me and each day I will strive to make someone's day better
and in future I hope to make a little boy and little girl's life better.
Give them a family because they deserve one.
4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly
got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were
important to you.
Develop inspirational dissatisfaction-
Inspirational dissatisfaction is the kind of dissatisfaction in which
motivates you to do something. In the sense that despite the goals one has
achieved they should aspire to achieve higher and when possible achieve
more. It was important because it kept me in check about reasons why no
matter how much I achieve I should not settle but aspire to do more
Character is the cornerstone of building success
In the book, 17principles of success, one of the principles is to have a
pleasing personality. Having a good character goes a long way in building
relationships. When your personality attracts people to you it makes it
easier for you to make alliances as well as get things done.
Set your target and keep trying until you hit it.
This reminds me to always set targets and not only that but to set them high
and keep trying relentlessly until I get where I want to be.
If you know your specific destination and take the first step, you are on
your way
Getting things done requires planning as well as the courage to take the
first step in getting things done. This encouraged me to always have courage
when I feel reluctant to do something.
Motivation is like a fire; unless you continue to add fuel, it will go out
Over and over we see people do things year in year out and then one day they
quit their jobs. So it got me thinking there could be many reasons one could
quit but motivation stands out. If someone does not feel motivated or
appreciated where they work, it will not be from remuneration but first and
foremost for appreciation so when this lacks they will probably leave the
job.
The victory within us does not assert itself until we are ready
This has stuck in my mind and has become a self motivator in my life because
it reminds me that the world has bigger things in store for me as I move and
grow.
5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear
about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?
No. This book was straight forward and generally easy to understand.
6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you
complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?
Yes the book had like exercises at the end of every chapter called pilots
and I completed each one. They are summaries of each chapter which ask you
to reflect back on what the chapter talks about as well as reminds you of
the main points the book has. The 20th chapter has an exercise known as the
success quotient which was helpful in getting to know my self better and
learning aspects of my life that I need to work on .
7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on
that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.
The book has taught me to use self motivators into doing things. Self
motivators I learnt are catchy and memorable statements that are meant to be
memorized whose purpose is to jump-start you whenever you feel low on
enthusiasm or when discouraged. It has taught me various like I feel good, I
feel great, I feel terrific. Interestingly it taught me how to come up with
self motivators on my own.
Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and
one is poor.
A. How interesting was it to read? 9
B. How helpful were the contents? 10
C. How easy was it to understand? 9
D. Would you recommend it to others? 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 9
Psycho-Cybernetics 2000
Assessment by Angie Gichimu.
1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the
book?
This book reveals to us the how we perceive ourselves affects the choices or
decisions we make. The author tries to show how our self image contributes
to our personality, to our lives and how self image can make us or break us
or even hinder us from achieving our full potential. According to Maxwell
Maltz, developer of Psycho-cybernetics saw that despite all the success one
may achieve, they may never regard themselves as successful because of their
self image or are trying to measure up to expectations others have set for
them. In that case one will never attain true satisfaction because they
never seem to measure up to the bar set by the self image.
Success is different to many, but the author reveals that one can only see
their success depending on the self image prescribed by us or to us. The
author gives six steps to success which include;
o Program yourself to success
o Imagining your way to success
o Relaxing and turning stress into success
o Setting goals
o Using negative feedback to point you toward success
o Dis-inhibit your personality and fueling success
In summary the book tells us that we always act, feel and behave in a way
that is consistent with our self image- regardless of the reality of that
image. The book also encourages us that we can achieve a positive self
image-one that will empower us to set and achieve goals by diligently
practicing a few simple techniques.
2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and
why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to
why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.
CRAFT - This stands for cancel, replace, affirm, focus and train. This was
important to me because, there are ways I have perceived myself that have
hindered me from taking on certain responsibilities or failed to step-up
when required to do so. So I learnt that a habit takes six weeks to break
and with this words, I am able to identify those negative thoughts and stop
them them before they make me change my mind, replace them with more
suitable attitudes, affirm myself that the new perception of myself I am
trying to affirm myself of is true, workable and realistic. The next step is
to focus my attention on my new attitudes and incorporate them in my life as
much as possible and finally train myself to use my new attitudes and use
them every time I perceive myself as not befitting or not suitable.
SEEDS - This stands for situation, evaluation, emotion, do, self -esteem.
This was important because it helps in identifying reasons behind my stress
or things that seem to bother me. First, identifying the situation as a
neutral situation; this means thinking about the situation objectively.
Secondly evaluating the problem and finding out who owns the problem. Third
is to shift your emotions to fit your evaluation. So I learnt that I may be
angry about something but after evaluating the situation and stop blaming
myself I realize that there is really nothing to get all so worked up about
and therefore calm my emotions a notch lower. The next step is to act (do).
Instead of reacting and lashing out crying and blaming myself. I think about
the situation and how it has affected me and how I feel about it and
confront it head-on. Finally self-esteem will follow. Bad things happen to
everyone, and problems will always be by our side, trick is to realize that
one can overcome these obstacles by believing in themselves.
It is not what you know about your resistance, that is going to make a
difference, its what you do with what you do with what you know.
This was important to me, because I am pretty good at procrastinating and I
know it. This has instilled a sense of responsibility in me in the sense
that, Yes I know I postpone doing things but now I am able to do something
about it with the knowledge I have. I have not fully broken the habit but
now I am able to resist procrastination more and get down to doing what I
should be doing.
Fear of Success and fear of failure.
This was a real eye opener. Though discussed separately when looked at
together, however they make a lot of sense. I realized that the reason I do
not do things is that I am afraid to fail and face embarrassment. On the
other hand I realize that I refuse to do certain things for the reason that
I am afraid of the outcome especially if I am successful. This has made me
evaluate my fears and come to the conclusion that some of the fears I have
are totally unfounded.
If you cant commit to writing your goals, you wont commit to following
through.
I learnt that what gets written gets measured and what gets measured gets
improved. This was in a podcast I listen to. This statement meant a lot to
me because writing my goals is like a contract with me. At the same time it
works as a reminder of what I set out to do. Writing my goals has taught me
discipline because I become committed to following through.
Stress results from the way you respond to outside events and not the events
themselves.
This means a lot to me because it made me realize that many times we find
ourselves in situations beyond our control, that work us up so much the
result of that is stress but then I realized that its not the events that
cause the stress but how we react to those situations. When we are
heartbroken, we lose sleep, take on bad eating habits, indulge in alcohol, a
self unwinding path. Hard as they may be, we fail to look at what we have
learnt or gained from the relationship and dwell on the sad and gloomy. This
then results to us getting ideas such as 'we are not good enough', or we
don't deserve love.
Resentment is anger gone rotten.
This caught my attention. It was important to me because it made me realize
that some of the resentment I harbor comes from anger over something which I
did not resolve. It therefore becomes part of my personality and thus making
me a less likeable person. Having resentment also means that I never have
peace because there are things that keep disturbing me, ruining my mood,
demonizing and awfulizing situations and especially when that resentment is
directed towards someone, nothing they say, no matter how valid seems good
enough. The only way to move on and get ahead is to practice forgiveness.
3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your
daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world? If so, how?
The lessons on CRAFT will help me change the negative perceptions I have of
myself, work on improving myself and slowly cleansing out the negative
attitudes I have and help me challenge myself to greatness. In creating a
better world the lesson will help me instill in others the importance of
changing our attitudes in order to maintain peace or live in a cleaner
environment.
SEEDS will help me change my habits and become a better person for the rest
it will help me teach people around me the importance of self esteem in the
decisions we make.
Also the lessons will help me not only identify my shortcomings but also
determine how to rid of them, for making a change in the world it will help
show others, lead by example that the key is not knowing your resistance but
determining how you are going to work in order to change and become a better
person or a better nation.
Facing fears individually or as a whole is key to moving on. Its that first
step in your journey of a thousand miles. Cliché as that may sound I take it
to be true.
Resentment comes from unresolved issues, therefore if you can't resolve
them, forgive and learn from them.
Commitment to anything comes from our willingness to see the results so for
the goals we set out, it's important to write down our goals as it helps us
see what we want to do and the time we have allotted to that task. That way
we can measure what has been done, what's yet to be done, any obstacles that
may come our way and evaluating our success both in our personal lives and
to the society and world around us.
4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly
got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were
important to you.
What you resist will persist-Chinese proverb This got my attention because
it reminds me all the time that the things we push aside because we do not
want to deal with them keep coming back, haunting us, sort of , therefore
the trick here is to face those things that we particularly do not want to
face, this helps us move on faster.
Do your worrying before you place your bet, not after the wheel starts
turning Many times we do things or make decisions then after that that worry
so much about the decisions that we have made, making us edgy and restless.
Most times we demonize the situations and breed resentment. This got my
attention because it reminds me that I should think about something before
making my decision and once I do it is out of my hands, just like doing an
exam, once I hand in my sheet its not in my control anymore and there is no
use worrying or causing unnecessary anxiety.
Make it a habit to challenge your false beliefs whenever you find yourself
aware of it. This is best done using the craft method of changing habits.
Identifying your false beliefs is the first step challenging them is the
second that leads into evaluating and affirming yourself and finally
training yourself to become a changed person.
Your attitudes, feelings and behavior change in the direction you believe to
be true. I never realized how important self image is and how much it
affects the choices we make and the kind of lives that we lead. It is our
self image that dictates or sets the limits of what our guidance system can
aim for. In short it is our self image that prescribes our limits. Therefore
we will make decisions according to what we believe to be true to us.
Anything that has been learned can be re-evaluated and challenged; anything
challenged can be re-learned. This challenges the perceptions we have of
ourselves and the habits we have developed as a result of what we believe of
ourselves. It reminds me that if we took time to learn something we can also
take a look at it and evaluate how helpful it is to us by challenging its
relevance and anything that can be challenged can be re-learned.
If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you have
always got. People fear change and we therefore remain rigid to change thus
remain on a cycle doing the same things over and over again always wondering
why nothing ever changes, why we never move forward in life why no matter
how hard we try we never succeed. We never stop to think that maybe its how
we do things that stops us from achieving the success we desire.
5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear
about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?
Well not really, though the chapter on your brain and how it works took
sometime to understand but now its not too much too handle and I can relate
and made me understand myself much better.
Secondly I would just like to know how to help others with the knowledge I
get from this book; I'm not perfect but while reading this book I thought
about someone who needs this more than I do but getting them to read the
book itself has proved to be a challenge. My conviction is that if they read
this book they would be much better.
6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you
complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?
Yes it has exercise to complete which were very helpful in identifying
things such as how I perceive myself, what caused such belief and what kind
of person I am. The exercise have taught me reflective relearning, a
technique that involves focusing on what bothers or hinders me and learning
from it to change my attitude. The book also has summaries at the end of
every chapter called targeting on ideas which give bullet points of what is
the main idea being communicated in a chapter.
7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on
that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.
The 7 point plan of writing down goals is one of them. I touch on this
because I feel that out of all the books I have read on goal setting, this
book gives the simplest plan and one that I can relate to. These steps
include
* Identify and write down your goal
* Assign dates for achievement of your goal
* Identify possible obstacles
* Surround yourself with people who want you to succeed
* Focus on you skills
* Follow your plan of action
* Ask yourself, 'what is in it for me?'
This was important to me because it made me look back at the goals I have
made and evaluate them according to these seven steps. This has helped me
make smart goals.
Specific
Measurable
Action-oriented
Realistic
Time conscious
Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and
one is poor.
A. How interesting was it to read? 7
B. How helpful were the contents? 8
C. How easy was it to understand? 6
D. Would you recommend it to others? 9
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 8
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