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Assessment by Edwine Nyandisi...
As a Man Thinketh
Assessment by Edwine Nyandisi (Kenya)
1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?
Man is literally what he thinks, his character being the complete sum of all
thoughts. All of the outcome of his actions are the offspring of his
thoughts, either negative or positive.
We are also responsible of the direction we want to take in our lives. Every
thing is in our mind disposal. I will always get what i want if i only have
the right and determined focused mind.
2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and
why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to
why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.
Our Will Power
I can change through always altering what is in my thoughts, this will
brings transformation and brings forth rapid effect in the material and
spiritual condition in my life. Because of the will power, every thought is
transformed into physical action.
Our Character
I am the master of thought, the moulder of character, and the maker and
shaper of condition, environment and destiny. My character is build on the
right thinking, right application of thought. Every thought which is born
and i use it transforms to the character that i have. Every thought that is
born in me can break or make my life.
Our Thoughts
That our thoughts are like a garden which must be cultivated always or else
their will be weed which bring forth useless results. I have to know what i
always plant in my thoughts in all circumstances. There are times in my life
and business i always think and see things impossible because of the
challenges i face on the situation facing my life. I believe cultivation is
the right word to use if i may say. Always in situation i have to cultivate
my thoughts always.
Our Dreams
That dreamers are the saviors of the world. If i continue dreaming it shows
what i will be one day, or one day unveil what i have always dream't. Those
who dream t before us had a dream, we are enjoying the dream they had. This
motivates me to work and strive for what i want even in bad and challenging
moments. Dreaming keeps me alive cause i know somewhere in my conscious i
have what i want and this dream are the realities of the seeds planted.
Calmness of Mind & self control
Calmness of mind is one of the jewels of wisdom is the result of long and
patient effort in self- control. I always have this challenge i almost
complain, curse, worry and fume about every things which doesn't work as i
want. This happens when you have done your best in what it was needed. But i
get the results which are not the one i was expecting. I believe calmness is
the answer to thins habit. Everything i do i need to understand clearly the
internal relations of things by the action of the cause and effect.
Factor in achievement
I am challenged by the fact that all that a man achieves and all that he
fails to achieve is the direct result of his own thoughts. This strong for
me, because many times i haven't managed to achieve most of the things i
want. May be its because i try somethings once and i let go if they don't
work, my be some time the strength is not there to keep on trying the same
thing around, in the process i give and try and see things if they can by
themselves. I later complain that i was not in a good position to do
something. I also see other people in better positions to do things than me.
Just feel bad that all the things have happen to me are directly result of
my own thought. I also feel challenged that i need to rise, conquer, and
achieve by lifting up my thoughts.
Thought & purpose
Until thought is linked with purpose there is no intelligent accomplishment.
Many time the things i do are not linked together, thats another part i can
i think i have to work towards to. This things are not compatible in my life
so i see where things have not been working well as getting a good result of
my action, and also not making my purpose the supreme duty to develop my
self to the attainment. Always my mind wonder around of many things which i
have gone through and not sure of the result even before i try. Am must work
had toward putting aimless and weakness and to begin to think with purpose
and enter ranks with those strong ones who only recorganise failure as one
of the pathways to attainment.
3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your
daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world? If so, how?
This will help me to determine my ability and my thinking capabilities of
how to decide what i want to achieve through the effect of thought and
purpose in my life. Also being aware everyday that am the results of what i
have being thinking in my thoughts. Am also to know that i am made of myself
and always the master even in my weakest and most abandoned state. Making my
purpose my supreme duty and i should devote myself to its attainment, not
allowing my thoughts to wander away into ephemeral fancies, longing and
imaginings. That i can find every true connected with my being if i only dig
deeper into my soul to see, that am the maker of my character, the molder of
my life and the builder of my destiny.
I should learn how to control my thoughts, tracing its effect upon myself,
upon others and upon my life and circumstances, liking cause and effect by
patient practice and investigation by utilizing my every experience even the
most of little significance or value. Through practice of patience and not
ceasing can i enter the door of the temple of knowledge.
4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly
got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were
important to you.
man is made or unmade by himself.
this was important to me reason being that i have being thinking that some
circumstances are there because of the trend of the family. This makes
strong and start practicing what i see i can do.
what a man thinks, so he is; as he continues to think, so he remains.
This showed me that a thought of a mind of man has all the ability a human
being has ever wanted to have, its where you want to decide and do through
your thought that determines your final result of what you want.
A man only begins to be a man when he ceases to whine and revile, and
commences to search for the hidden justice which regulates his life.
Normally when faced with challenges of everyday i can stop complaining,
cursing and seeing that life is not fair. I have seen and learn't that that
doesn't help. Searching deeper for what you want in your life is inside your
soul. I should adapt my mind of not complaining. I should us that strength
in searching for the hidden abilities i have inside me.
5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear
about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?
Not any that i have seen or read about.
6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you
complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?
No
7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on
that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.
The book was nice reading just that it had a lot of hard words which made my
reading more slow because i had to stop reading and try to understand them
through using a dictionary.
Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and
one is poor.
A. How interesting was it to read? 9
B. How helpful were the contents? 10
C. How easy was it to understand? 5
D. Would you recommend it to others? 9
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 9
Jonathan Livingstone Seagull
Assessment by Edwine Nyandisi (Kenya)
1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?
Everyone of us has ability from within to do anything we want to besides our
weaknesses.
That we have unlimited power within us that can be stretched to any capacity
we want in our lives and that we should never be limited or feel comfortable
where we are at the moment. We should always strive to the unknown because
that's where we get to know our inner capacity can do.
2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and
why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to
why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.
* Not accepting the ordinary
* Limitations
* Open-minded
* Altitude
* Forgiveness
* Experiment
* Barriers
Not accepting the ordinary: my first reason is that I really liked how
Jonathan did, he broke out of the tradition of not accepting to be the gull
who wanted only the normal things that every bird was doing. He managed to
go the extra mile to learn to fly and was determined, this actually reminds
me of the step I took some years back, I was very desperate to get a job, I
had a lot of friends whom we jobless with, every day when we meet the only
thing we used to discuss is how we are poor, no jobs for us, and other
stuff, this went on for along time and one day i said enough is enough. I
really searched within my self what I was good in. I came up with an idea of
staring my own business and eventually I managed to start one. At that time
I had consulted with few people about the business but every one told me
that its not easy that I should find something simpler to do. I refused to
accept the ordinary and risked to try and see where it takes me. From that
time I have always believed that if you decide from your heart of not
accepting the ordinary, there is a lot you can achieve, whatever we want to
achieve.
Limitations: many times we tend to be limited the way our lives are, this is
something which I believe everyone experiences. It's challenging when
Jonathan one time he was trying to fly and it reached a place he felt like
he was doing nothing and thought of giving up and going back to join the
other flock at home. Eventually he managed to go forth and kept trying and
never gave up. My life has basically has had a lot of challenges and I have
been looking down on my self because there are specific things I don't have
that why am not able to achieve some specific goals in my life till this
moment. But I have been encouraged that limiting you're my self is not the
best solution. I should keep on striving to be where I dream to be. I have
realized that trying everyday is a step everyday and progress I have made.
Finally limiting my self does not do me better but only reminds me even the
things I have not been able to achieve.
Open-minded: open minded makes you learn a lot, I believe Jonathan could not
have managed if he wasn't open-minded, that's how he found higher purpose
for the life he had wanted. There are things I have been told about my self
and others set before me that I have always wondered how to deal with them
because of some reasons or the other.
What I always do is may be ignore, assume or I have allowed them to let me
down, I have learned that it doesn't help, I should always open my mind and
know that this world has different challenges and know that some things will
always happen. But when my mind is open I know this challenges will not put
me down because my mind will be able to shock absorb the challenges and move
with life.
Altitude: I was encouraged by Jonathan, one of the encouragement was his
altitude he had towards his progress to what he wanted to archive. For the
challenge
Experiment: its always good to experiment the this world because you will
never know what you are capable of doing until you do something from within
you, and not concentrate on the psychical or seen shortcomings.
Value: sometimes in life we have different type of things everyone values,
but there is that thing is important to everyone, and some my sound so
stupid that to other its like you are wasting time and doing a lot of
nothing. I have come to know that as a person everyone has his own potential
in every interest one has. Spending that time in something you value will
bring forth the fruits of your work, it may be painful. Because that's why
we all don't look alike and are different. The point is we all have
different things we all value as individuals.
Sharing: sharing is an important asset to this life, its nation community
building if you share the skills or ideas that others don't have. Also very
healthy when one shares to me and idea or skill that I have never sat down
to think about. Not sharing our skills and ideas together is selfishness
that will never take us anywhere. Sharing our ideas creates a stronger bond
between us and that removes foolishness in us and that makes you think
beyond your nose.
Creativity: somewhere in the book I have learnt that ideas of creativity
come from going that extra mile that your friends are afraid to go. Extra
mile makes a difference in everything we do, one should be able to walk with
those who are willing to take risks and have the passion to learn without
minding to try several times even if they fail the first time. Failing the
first time or the second time doesn't mean you can't do it. Staying and
walking with those who don't want to learn in life and who keep complaining
what they cant do because of what they are or because of there shortcomings,
this will only pull you down and make you feet in there category, this will
also make you not think beyond your shortcomings.
Stumbling blocks: I believe it a right for every human being to achieve
anything one wants, but there things inside us that make us think we cannot
do it. These things may be our past, our failures, our friends, limitations
and other things related to that. If want to achieve our dreams and see
results, we must put aside what hinders us from achieving, it doesn't matter
what it is it must be put aside.
Forgiveness: because of ones effort and passion, one may get misunderstood
and that can cause you a friction between you and your close friends or
family because they don't understand what you are doing, and some times they
think you are stupid. It's always good to forgive them and still involve
them in what you see will help them. One day they will come to appreciate
what you did was right.
Learning from others: learning from others is also one of the best lessons
because it shows our willingness to learn more and to get more ideas for
what we don't know. This means that if we have the will to do something we
are able to do it regardless of time situation or session.
3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your
daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world? If so, how?
There is no person like me in this world, am capable of doing anything that
i want to do
in this world. I am able to stretch my mind to all possibility. When doing
things i should not think what other people will say or think because human
beings will never lack anything to say.
I can listen to other people's opinion but am to decide what i want to do at
the end.
Challenges are there everyday in our lives and they are there to build and
mold us to think beyond the challenge.
Not making in whatever you do doesn't mean that you wont do it, it means
that you can do it if you can try it differently.
4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly
got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were
important to you.
Don't believe what your eyes are telling you-this challenged me because i
normally give up because either what i have seen and decide like what i
wanted to do because i already judged the situation impossible. This showed
me that never to get satisfied with what i see, i should view situation and
decide with my heart and mind as thats the power of all things.
that it is right for a gull to fly, that freedom is the very nature of his
being, that whatever stands against that freedom must be set aside, be it
ritual or superstition or limitation in any form. This got my attention
because i realized that i have been given all abilities in the world, but
what happens is that challenges stand on my way or situations that make me
not see like i can do something. I would like to be able to go forth and
make all sort of stumbling blocks out of my way with all the abilities i
have naturally by full filing what my life is purposed to achieve and gain
in freedom.
5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear
about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?
As i started reading the book i didnt get it what was all about the seagulls
and that was a little difficult for me to grasp the whole idea. I didnt know
how that would apply to my life. Eventually as i kept reading it, i got the
whole idea. I had to start all over again to understand now about the
beginning of the bird and tried slowly to apply that in my life.
It was really interesting to read the book.
6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you
complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?
No it didn't
7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on
that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.
I think whatever i have read was ok, i have no comments regarding what was
not covered
Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and
one is poor.
A. How interesting was it to read? 8
B. How helpful were the contents? 9
C. How easy was it to understand? 6
D. Would you recommend it to others? 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 8
Psycho-Cybernetics 2000
Assessment by Edwine Nyandisi. B (Kenya)
1. What is the main idea that the author is trying o convey in the book?
I can have range and I might be justified perfectly, this wont get me
anywhere or close to my destiny. I have to confront these situations for
feeling sorry for myself, self worthless. Playing a blame game myself won't
work out.
I should develop a work plan to improve myself a conscious so as to build my
image because anything doesn't happen overnight, it takes daily effort.
Always keep my attention focused.
2. What are the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and
why?
List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why
it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.
Failures & disappointments
This has helped and it's an experience that I have gone through not even one
time, i have felt like a failure if I don't have clients in my business, as
a father or not meeting the target I have planned to achieve in my plan, or
it takes a long time than I expected it. I have looked at my self and saw
that I cannot make it like most of the other guys out there. I have learned
not to focus on the failures disappointments rather focus on my own success
and areas I have managed to progress even it's in a very small way not what.
Creative imagination
Personally I didnt know if it was possible to replace old thoughts, images,
and staff, and to say the truth is that this takes time to replace them.
They still come to my mind once in a while; do you know what type of family
you came from? What makes you think that you will be succssful? And other
things when they come in my thoughts I really feel down. I feel my life
coming to the light once more and I have realized that its matter of being
creative with my imagination to find my own best self. This will in process
replace the old thoughts. Old thoughts through reflective relearning my
ideal self will become reality in good time. My altitudes, feelings behavior
change will matter what I want to become.
False believes
Since I have been a kid I always believed that most of the things I do it
are directly to what I found in the community. That if you have failed in
high school that's the end of your life or, the only people who are notice
in the community are those whose have studied to universities or gone abroad
for further the rest of the guys are useless in the community. This has
created a pattern in my life and believed it was true.
After reading the book I was very touched and thought for while about my
life and how I have been in the dark. Am joyful to know some of the ideas
the author has been sharing. Am putting some of the ideas into practice
every day and praying the almighty to help me.
Fake it till you make it.
This has been positive to me, I cant forget it, times when I haven't
achieved any or things are not working the way I want. When I see this I
tend to complain much and forget what I managed to do in the past.
When I will experience this again I will fake till I make it through showing
a positive mental attitude, see things are going to be better and be
positive about everything, and I know this is going to cost me great time
for what I want. I believe through doing this I will have anything I want in
my life.
Surrounding my self with people who want me to succeed.
When I read this, it struck me because I have never thought of it. Just
thought friends are friends and it didnt matter if I had to choose friends
who are supportive of what I want to achieve. I thought just having friends
part of them discouraging you and pulling was part of the game, even leaders
I know keep telling me that I cant do something that I think its what I want
to do. If I review what has happened I believe part of where I am it's
because some the friends I have have never been supportive of what I have
been desiring and not true friends. I have to choose friends who are
supportive in my dream and goals that I want to achieve and they will make
time for me and to collect if it needed be without putting me down.
Not letting past mistakes control my life
I have normally made my decisions based on the past mistakes I had. This has
let me go slow on some things because I fear that I will always make the
same mistake all over again. Not letting them go, learning from them and get
focused on my goals. I should learn that this are just past of the lesson
and I should not dwell on them no matter how many times I make, it paring
when my mind is positively set to move without self pity.
Using CRAFT
When am trying to work out something in my life no matter what this negative
thoughts come that it's not possible, this not the right time and so on.
This process of the CRAFT will help me because i will cancel the negative
thoughts, find the right positive ideas replace them with those and affirm
them strongly, focus on the then and finally train my mind to be always
positive and able to achieve whatever my mind has conceived.
3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in practical way, both in your
daily personal life and helping you to create a better world? If so, how?
These ideas will have a great impact in my life both ways. I should learn to
think and grow out the box and move forward focused. This should happen when
I have clear mind, specific goals without this it doesn't matter how had I
may try. I should know what I want so that I can get guaranteed to get
whatever I want; I should have targets always in my life.
I have to learn and know that mistakes are part of this life and they don't
dictate what I am focused to do
I will use negative feedback the right way, I will combat emotional wounds
with relaxation and always. Always appreciate my self as a spiritual being.
Finally sharing this ideas and book to my friends so that they can learn as
I have learned.
4. Quotes: are there any statements which the author made that particularly
got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were
important to you.
Yes! If you always done what you've always done, you will always get what
you've always got
This was important to me because sometime we always do things the same if we
want get different result, the challenge is we don't learn from that, and we
go and do the same thing again and over again. If it doesn't work, after
that we start complaining that things are not working. It was not the right
idea and give up. I have learned that I should try one idea in different
hundred ways so to get different results. That's the way to go forward.
Should be open mind with ideas.
5. is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear
about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?
No, not any I have come across.
6. Did this book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did
you complete all of
the exercises and did you find them helpful?
Yes! Yes I did complete and the exercises were very helpful to me.
7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on
that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.
NO.
8. Please rate the following on the scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and one
is poor.
A. How interesting was it to read? 8
B. How helpful were the contents? 8
C. How easy was it to understand? 7
D. Would you recommend it to other? 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 10
Keys To Success
Assessment by Edwine Nyandisi
1. What is the main idea that the author is trying o convey in the book?
The author was conveying a message about the mental altitude that we should
have a right of control of every thing. Having the right attitude is the
right key to success and learning to exercise it right as a matter of habit.
Also the conscious mind is where reasoning and thinking occur.
2. What are the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and
why?
List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why
it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.
1) Forming a master mind alliance.
This was important to me reasons that the idea of having a master mind will
make any my plans more easily and workable and the support of different
ideas from guys will play a big roll in my any decision making. Its has made
me realize it and its my duty and my responsibility to find way to adopt it.
I can't work on my own; I need to team up to bust my ideas and my plans to
work. From the life I have lived I guess I have been very reserved about my
things and sharing them out t people. I have realized that basing things
only on my own won't be workable without consulting to find out other ideas
from trusted friends
2) Penalties of a negative attitude
The truth is that if I don't direct my thinking possession of my mind
towards what I want I will be finally doomed I don't know if its life it's
self or what other people call getting lucky. But most of the time s I find
myself thinking hard as to why am always no making it in this life or
anything I try to do. Always struggling, and of cause having negative
attitude towards a lot of what I try because they don't work. I feel that if
I don't take full responsibility of m life I will never make any step or not
move from where I am. This should be something that I should work on every
time.
3) Way to develop a positive mental attitude.
I have always felt that there is a small possibility to be successful and I
never knew to nature that small part can make a big difference in my life.
Know I can have that confidence to believe in my self and work on it no
matter how small the possibility is, its possible to achieve. All this will
start with my mental attitude if I want to see my self in another level of
where I want to be and this is something that is very important which I and
only I can complete control over and be focused on anything I have targeted
. This should be exercised by me every time
4) The power of he will.
When it comes to this most of the time I really fear because am always
worried about the possibility of my desires working and I get afraid of
thinking what if I fail? And what always pulls me down and makes me down is
that I normally think that may be this idea is for specific people may who
are gifted to do this, I don't believe in my self enough to stand and go for
what I have wanted. I always see obstacles fist and challenges before I do
anything positive. The way I have read through this book and seeing where
guys have come from, its fired me up and believed that if t was not the
power of the will of this guys they could never make it in life or be where
they are today. If they dint have that zeal and will from inside them and
the risk they took. That's something want to try today and be determined
will all what I have, the power of the will make me move forward to another
level of seeing things differently. Because the greatest manifestation of
anybody I self discipline, and that's in the strength of the will an if I
train myself and discipline myself I will be irresistible force that cannot
be limited. I can be able to stretch my self if a also constant, and ethical
exercises of all times of my life.
5) Controlled habit
to speak the truth never have I thought that controlled habit play any big
roll in my life not at all in my business and family. I normally think that
most of the things fall into place of there own time and life goes on. I
couldn't combine controlled habits and my life and how they work.
I believe this point makes me see this differently in a way, that any habit
contributes largely on the formation of any human being, either positive or
negatively. Have learned and its important that I will respect doing things
or acting in my definite major purpose then it becomes a habit, since I have
consciously decided upon the nature of my actions.
6) Definiteness of purpose.
What has been happening in my life is if something doesn't work when I try
something
Else to see if its working, if I fail that one I try another, its like
hopping from one idea to another without sorting and finding out why the
first idea was not working. Am always not patience with ideas I have. Am
always on the move to see things work as only as I wanted without like
seeking the second opinion from friends or from the some guys who do the
same thing as I do. I have learned that I have to be patience to be able to
work things through. Anytime I have decided to something I want in my life,
I have to seat down, meditate, carry out a plan, have a desire for it and
concentrate on it as a target. To focus and be consistent pays later because
my desire is focused on what I want.
7) Going an extra mile.
I love simple things that work very easy and am happy for that, when it come
to ideas and things make my head spin! Am not there, I don't like struggling
with idea right left and centre. I cant tell if its exactly loving simple
things. But I have learned that is that going an extra mile pays a lot more
at the end. I should be doing something continuous with action and it must
be part of everything I do everyday. The applied attention will give me a
momentum to my efforts and will inspire enthusiasm and faith in my mind.
3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in practical way, both in your
daily personal life and helping you to create a better world? If so, how?
That to make it in anything I want in this world can be the most amazing and
my dream come true. But to make it I should compare my life like that of a
team to make it, I will need good friends who are there to support me in
different ways and who can guide me and input different ideas into what
ideas I have. Mostly new ideas. I also need to be positive about things that
I do, my life cannot be compared to anybody. Everyone has his/her desires.
It depends on how one makes his desires come out
Thirdly I have learned that to be disciplined in every area of my life.
Habit, character wise and other areas and also have a full complete control
over my thought. Challenges are part of life, I should always find a way to
have solution to setbacks and t affirms that tomorrow is another day, life
doesn't end there.
4. Quotes: are there any statements which the author made that particularly
got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were
important to you.
1) Keep your mind on the things you want and off the things you don't want.
-this got into me in a way that I tried to compare something in my practical
life when am thinking to work out something or a project, am always thinking
the way I don't see it working, its risky and all kind of discouraging. But
the message and courage part I have got is that it will only work only when
am focused seeing things are achievable and possible, even if it seems there
is a small chance that there is a way out.
2) The power of a positive mental attitude.
-That if I put my mind to work with a positive mental attitude and believe
that success is my right, my believe will guide me towards whatever my
definition of success might be, I see things all being achieved if all
people knew this.
5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear
about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?
Not any I have come across.
6. Did this book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did
you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?
Yes! There were exercises I completed and they were very helpful because
they have help me plan my life.
7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on
that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.
No
8. Please rate the following on the scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and one
is poor.
A. How interesting was it to read? 8
B. How helpful were the contents? 8
C. How easy was it to understand? 7
D. Would you recommend it to other? 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 9
Success Through A Positive Mental Attitude
Assessment by Edwine Nyandisi (Kenya)
1. What is the main idea that the author is trying o convey in the book?
That our minds have a secret talisman, one side is emblazoned the latter s
PMA ( Positive mental attitude) and the other side the letters ( negative
mental attitude) NMA. That also positive mental attitude will attract good
and beautiful. Negative attitude will rob any of all that make a life worth
living.
2. What are the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and
why?
List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why
it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.
1) HOPE- I haven't been keen in or understood hope as I understand in this
book, its so wide that I have felt that to some point I need to work on it
whichever way I can. Actually I have been thinking that hope is just a way
of feeling things will work out everyday. But I have never sat down and
analysed it very closely. This has put a different type of faith in me to
see it differently. I just feel like it's a new this that's being worked
through my life, hope. It's directly straight that its desire with the
expectation of obtaining what is desired and relief that it is obtainable.
That personally consciously reacts to that which to me is believable
attainable.
2) The self starter to self motivator do it now!
There are a lot of opportunity which have passed me by because of not acting
right away or I keep on postponing to do something, and I can say that this
has coasted me a lot. Am learning that whenever an idea crosses my mind I
should write it down and go through it, and I should be able to do it
immediately. If I keep on postponing this ideas that cross my mind, I will
never make some important steps in my life and will miss important
opportunities for the rest of my life and they will never come up again. If
I think of ideas or want to do something I should be able to do it right
away without hesitating. It the best thing to get things done first.
3) Choosing to live positively with (PMA)
As i understand it , life can be very difficult sometimes and most of the
time I have been giving up. Reasons been that most of the things that I have
been dreaming of are ot working or I feel like there is nothing working in
my life. In one point or the other it has made me suffer. And if they don't
work I see things negatively after that. This idea of PMA has been of great
help and a dose of my life. Learned that a positive mental attitude affects
my health. It attracts a good health to me. A negative will always will be
attract the opposite. It doesn't matter how bad things are, using PMA is the
way out without stressing my life. At any time.
4) To be happy make others happy.
By this you remove this thing called selfishness, because this what has
killed the teaming up with other minds an not independency in terms of
sharing ideas. Its human that everyone strives for something in life. After
we have succeed we don't want to share that experience with others, we want
everything for our self's and everything to work in our way. That's not
being sensitive to other people, because we think we should keep or anybody
should keep his/her ideas to himself. This joy and ideas should be enjoyed
with others, motivating others and bringing happiness into there life's. The
only way to expand our blessings and territories is to share our happiness
and success with others. This will make us continue growing and accumulating
more to share still. That the surest way to find happiness for my self, this
happiness will come in return to me in many times over.
5) Setting on high goals regularly
Everyday in life regarding what i have been doing, I just count each day as
it comes, as doing as I have set my mind for the day. Not of working on it
and trying to make things work or make some ideas work. Continuously doing
that will be wasting a lot of time and precious time.
This should be done differently as in setting up on high goals and analyzing
every idea and find ways of how things will work without giving up. To avoid
the idea of doing things in assumption should be worked on. That should be
constant.
6) Where there is nothing to loose by trying, and a great deal to gain is
successful by all means try. There is nothing as hard as trying some ideas
out for the first time. All this negative ideas keep on creeping in in a way
to your ideas, even some friends and family will give you there mind on your
ideas and this can rely discourage you. I think of my time, what it will all
cost, how this will happen, and other funny ideas which come along with
this. But I have seen people who try there ideas out and I have seen them
making it. In a way this idea has helped me know that this is a matter of
attitude, I have already set I my mind that and encouraged myself that my
mind can on a PMA and things will work regardless of what I think on the
other side NMA.
7) Something more
there is a part in this book I couldn't resist. Because it reminded me of
some small business idea I have been having and I gave up on the way. and
you know the how the business world works, trying to weigh the business, how
it will work, the competition and other challenges I normally put first.
Most of the time what comes into my mind is that the plan is poor and I
conclude that it's inevitable. That's why I believe most of us young people
haven't ever understood how the idea and how businesses work. I believe the
ideas that guys have can be natured and worked on to be workable regardless
how small someone thinks his/her ideas are. So this ideas one has and thinks
that today if you have money, you can open a small business and tomorrow you
sow a billions like that even not thinking the process he business goes
through. That's becomes the hardest part when it comes to reality telling
me. I have agreed and decided that if anything I do doesn't work, I need and
should do something extra on my plan and actions to get different results
from the same ones I had. Through we will make it.
3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in practical way, both in your
daily personal life and helping you to create a better world? If so, how?
a) This will help me to find out ways to go an extra mile where I have
failed and given up. I should not give up not at ant moment or see things on
the negative side. To realize that this can only be done with a positive
mental attitude.
b) Anything I do in life I don't have to be ashamed whether I fail. Failure
is part of the process. This will also help me in seizing upon the problems
I encounter as opportunities in disguise and scrutinize them for good and
element when I understand using PMA
c) I should always hope to what I expect, because hope is a desire that when
I put my expectation constant ad believe anything I want is obtainable. Then
my dream will come true with a positive mental attitude.
d) Setting my goals high everyday and believing I will make it. Because am
100% sure that anything my mind can conceive and believe, my mind can
achieve still with positive mental attitude.
e) I have success born in me. Everyday of my life I should have that in my
mind and know that an special before good and unique. I should never give up
anything in this life till I get what I want and that satisfies me only with
the right mind.
4. Quotes: are there any statements which the author made that particularly
got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were
important to you.
a) As he thinketh in his heart, so is he.
- I just realized am what am always thinking of my self, am who I call my
self and I who I see my self because that what creates me and makes me. I
have built myself depending on how I have been focusing my mind.
- He quote reminded me that if I want to be successful, I should first think
of my self as a successful person. And let it be in my mind and always
remind my self always.
b) Faith without works is dead.
- it doesn't matter what I do or desire, with this faith , its cant happen
because it the driving force of my everything in my life.
5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear
about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?
No.
6. Did this book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did
you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?
Yes I did manage to do the exercise. They were helpful working out my ideas
and how to keep planning.
7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on
that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.
No.
8. Please rate the following on the scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and one
is poor.
A. How interesting was it to read? 8
B. How helpful were the contents? 9
C. How easy was it to understand? 8
D. Would you recommend it to other? 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 9
Real Magic
Assessment by Edwine Nyandisi (Kenya)
1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?
That anyone in the world can create something called real magic despite
where and what you are in.
We are always limited physically but not thought wise, we have the powerful
tool in the world we can create anything and the life we all desire to have.
The author was also conveying the message that we are not limited thought
wise, I also understood that challenge is part of life and we supposed to
look beyond the challenge and be consistent in what we doing.
2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and
why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to
why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.
* That fighting starvation only weakens me as a fighter and makes me angry
and frustrated while working for a well- fed populace is empowering.
- most in this life since we were young is always fighting anything which is
against me or something that I don't what, and knowing that it's my strength
am loosing in a situation will never be settled by fighting back anything in
life. The only way I have discovered Is to work the other way round, being a
spiritual being first and not be against anything or fight anything in this
life, because that's a waste of my energy resource. Know the power of my
mind what it can do.
* When I examine what I believe to be impossible, I can change my beliefs
In life there is so much that I have being thinking is not possible, in
terms of how I was raised, brought up, the environment I have lived , what
religion has taught me and what I have learnt from my close and what I have
also read. There are things I know would not be possible in my life because
of the situation I was in. What I have known is that the mother of my
believes and reality are in my thoughts and searching that true
accomplishment is inside me. My actions with my mind, my habits that I have
I can change them and determine the progress of my inner person as I change
my altitude.
* I cannot create prosperity if I believe in lacks.
As I said earlier is that follow what you want, if I want peace I should
work towards it not against it, because everything I need I have got it, its
that I have to look inside me deep inside, I have everything I need beside
that I might not see it /that physically. Everything is directly transformed
and brought out from inside my unlimited soul, which is not bounded by
anything and that's what counts.
* Am willing to do what it takes to make my dreams a reality
I haven't allowed myself for a long time to create and programme myself to
create what I would want to be possible, and what I have normally done is
complain and make curse! Curses! Of trying and asking God why am in this
world. I have done this not knowing that I have the capacity to shift from
impossible mind set to the magic possible able person who can work out
things from practicing everyday about my dreams and what I see myself
achieving, and also affirming to myself and the universe that am able and I
am n the right place.
* Practicing daily meditations.
This is very important as I have learned from it; most of my life has been a
busy life without meditation and rethinking of my soul. It should be a part
of my daily life because that's where the magic and miracle are created from
without knowing, that moment to set apart for meditation, can change the
direction of my life. This experience is to search that quietness in my
inner part of me and find the true of what I don't know.
* You can't give what you don't have.
I haven't realised that some times its what we do that comes from our
hearts, and sometimes I can be limited and say that I don't have anything to
give and haven't looked inside my heart well and look for what I can give.
Always thought giving was more touchable than what i can give but can't be
seen, like love passion prayers and others.
I must start from somewhere to give from my heart and do give out from
heart, and this should not be compared to what others have done or what they
are doing, I have a choice to made difference if I want it.
This reminds me that, I can't give love and get hate in return, it will be
love, you can't get peace if you war, you will still get war. It depends on
what kind of love you are planting.
Where you are.
* Creating an intention inventory for myself not a wish list.
I can't lie but I have always wished a lot of things to happen in my life
every day, I wish I could get a good job, buy a car, be a successful man as
xyz and the list is long with a lot of wish list.
I can't lie about this but sometimes I am feel like I am a powerful person
but I can't define myself, as in I have what I takes but I don't know how or
where to start because I am afraid to start and fail, and that's how that
wishing story comes around.
On the other part, I can be consistent in what am doing trust my intuition
and look at things positively every time, I know sometimes I would look for
the thing I have not made and feel sorry for myself, but that not they way
to go if I want things to work for me. I should be able focus on the things
am improving and are working out even if they are small, that's the starting
point ad I will create trust and confident on myself every day of my life. I
should always have intentions to make through or want what I want but not
wish. for things.
3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your
daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world? If so, how?
* These ideas will help me in terms of knowing myself from within,
understanding the person I ought to be spiritually from being a person
operating from a physical world, though I am physical, I should know to
determine the kind of life I want to have.
* The other way that these ideas are going to help me is through practicing
prosperity, richness wealth from inside my mind, that's the way, my dreams
and beliefs will come to pass and bring accomplishment in my life.
* Will learn to teach the world with my actions rather than mare words with
my mouth speaks a lot without any action done, doing things in actions is
the best way to express what somebody wants to do/express something in life.
It brings out the kind of person you are, even before you say anything. I
remain with the words that once said that actions speak louder than words.
My actions are starting to speak now.
* That I should always intend to get what I want and not wish to get things
because through that nothing will ever happen. Having a confident heart and
spirit and trust myself to get what I want will always possible because I
have intended to get it.
4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly
got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were
important to you.
* That my intensions create my reality, so I be aware of them, and be
willing to put them into practice in my world today - there is somewhere in
my point I did write this because it rely got into me. Sometime in life I
have been a victim of some circumstances and I was always wishing something
would just happen every time I thought of it or my mind drugged to it. I was
truly reinforcing a negative thought towards what I was seeing is not
working towards me. But later discovered that I victimizes me fully like I
dint have a way out. This is because the kind of intensions I had. So that's
why this statement has being ringing in my mind since I read through it, it
made sense to me like a thunder, I couldn't assume but make some affirmation
on it. That my intensions create my reality
* Once you know you can do it, and act that way, the means will be obvious.
Acting as if you were what you want to become is the way to remove
self-doubt and enter your real- magic kingdom -there is no better way of
doing acting what you want in life, just trying and putting yourself in an
act that you doing what you love. That's where the other statement come in
that practice makes perfect, I want to achieve something in life and am
interested, I learn the way it's done get it practice and work on it till it
become the normal but also reality for I have perfected in that through the
practice I have been constantly doing. Still this makes me believe that
things are possible if there is some patience and consistence and added love
to it, its workable.
* Can't give what you don't have.
Everyone has something to give out besides the materials things we normally
think it's the only way to give. This has made me believe that all of us
have something to give if we will look inside our hearts to find out.
5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear
about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?
Not anything I have come across.
6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you
complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?
Not exactly but it had some kind of recommendations and comments after some
chapter for one to think about and keep in mind.
7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on
that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.
No
Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and
one is poor.
A. How interesting was it to read? 6
B. How helpful were the contents? 7
C. How easy was it to understand? 7
D. Would you recommend it to others? 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 8
How To Win Friends & Influence People
Assessment by Edwine Nyandisi (Kenya)
1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?
That in life sometimes we are supposed to care about other people rather
than every time thinking about one self. It's good in life to pause and
listen to people on what they want, their feelings, want they desire and so
forth. This can go a long way in life rather than talking about our self and
trying to satisfy our ego as human being. Through this we can win them into
our life because we have given them and ear where they have known we can
listen and trust us. As we heed and follow this idea, we can win ones
friendship in whatever way we want.
2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and
why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to
why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.
Sincere appreciation - Appreciation plays a big role in one's life, I have
worked with different people in life, but when one person, only one comes to
you and appreciates you, you feel stronger and desire to improve what you
were doing. Its brings a certain joy and feel you doing something which one
appreciates. Even you respect and you don't forget the person who saw what
you were doing and appreciated you.
Not to condemn rather try and understand the other side of the other person
- condemning always brings someone's confidence down and unmotivated. This
also brings the moral of a person down and one can feel that he/she is not
worthy because someone has just seen the things you have wrongly done.
Without condemning someone's ability, it's good to build someone's
confidence and personality. That's the way to encourage people to move
forward and press on. The other way it can be to try and understand the
other person what they feel and what they are going through, this can be a
better way to understand a person for the other perspective.
Being an attentive listener. This can be agreed with me because a bigger
percentage of my life and what I always say has been about myself and what I
want to do where I want to be and achieve and so on, but it has never
occurred to me how important it is to listen and be attentive to other
people,
To try and give them a ear and let what they have inside come out and feel
relived. Because that's how to treat and know how other people what they
feel and want.
Listening to someone means a big deal to them to some extent they can feel
free and important to tell you about anything I there life or what they are
going through.
You will mean a lot to a person who you listen to always.
Talking in terms of the other persons interests. Its normally interesting
that everyone wants to be listened to and be listened to because that's the
nature and the altitude that all of us human beings have, you have to show
some interest and effort to show people you know that
You are interested in what they are doing, how you can add on what their
interest is. Trying to find where there heart is in terms of their intimate
interest are, that will can be milestone even in terms of if you want to get
through them in anything you may want to know or want from them, because the
first interest you showed was in them, to them they will think I terms of
how very interested you are in what they are doing, this can never go wrong.
How to make people like you instantly- sometime people take life very
seriously and tend to think that there is nothing besides being serious and
they even don't put a smile in their faces. They just get serious and down
to business, you can spend the whole day passing each other without saying
hallo, sometimes people get this serious because they don't have anyone to
appreciate them and to give them a word of motivation to their work and or
even a smile.
A smile and giving that person a genuine appreciation can work like a magic,
it's not a must that we have to get something from people when admire and
know how they are doing or try to put a smile into their faces, just a
genuine appreciates can play change somebody's set of mind or one can see
that there people out there who appreciates them intensively, when they know
that they become happy and encouraged through the day and in life I short.
Do unto others what you'd like them do unto you- what any appreciation you
want and want people to be interested in you, do that to them, find out what
interests them what make them happy, smile for them, all this things can
happen to you too if you get interested into other peoples lives. Whatever
you want, do that to your friend, neighbour, stranger, a new friend a
stranger and the list goes on.
To understand the other person(s) point of view- I have always wanted all
things to be done my way as I want even if we were other people involve and
had different ideas which could help, I never want to enter into any
argument because I never cared what the other colleges had in mind, all what
I wanted is my ego to e feed, I have just understood and trying to explore
the possibility of understanding the other side of my friends, here them out
and saw it clearly that sometimes that cooperativeness in conversation with
them will be only achieved when I show that I consider this guys ideas and
feelings as important as my own. I have also learnt that giving the other
person a direction of my conversation and accepting their views it will
encourage the listener to have an open mind to my ideas.
3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your
daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world? If so, how?
These ideas will help me in ways that I will know how to deal with people
from all walks of life, to listen to them, understand them get interested in
the things they love, appreciate where necessary because in one way everyone
in this life craves to be appreciated and that's the way life is.
Also I will not be judging people but will try to understand their point of
view, engage them in their own conversation and try to understand them from
their perspective. What I have also learnt is normally to give a sincere
appreciation from the heart, to be a good listener more than what I speak
and say of myself.
To understand people from their views and trying to fit myself in their
shoes and not be selfish with loading people minds talking about myself all
the time. So if I want someone to be interested in me I should be keen and
encourage them to speak more about their selves. To make this difference
will be part of which one can change a world. To listen to people.
Anything I want from people, to be listened to, understood, and someone to
tell about my feeling and what I want, I should be ready to do unto others
what I would like them to do unto me. That's the bottom line. It doesn't
have to be something you want in return. An open heart especially will do
something untouchable.
4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly
got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were
important to you.
Do unto others what you would like them do unto you.- this has been a very
strong message / quote for me, because if I want to be happy, let me make
the other person happy, let me give this person what he/she doesn't have,
let me listen to this person, because tomorrow I will need this too. This
quote has inspired me because its reminding me that you can give what you
don't have, in short means everyone has something to give.
5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear
about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?
No
6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you
complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?
No
7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on
that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.
No
Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and
one is poor.
A. How interesting was it to read? 6
B. How helpful were the contents? 7
C. How easy was it to understand? 5
D. Would you recommend it to others? 8
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 7
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